Conflicting Thought Patterns: Is Fear of being Unplugged a Sign of Impending Failure?

January 9th, 2012
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Conflicting Thought Patterns: Is Fear of being Unplugged a Sign of Impending Failure?

Conflicting Thought Patterns: Is Fear of being Unplugged a Sign of Impending Failure?

Maybe I'm just getting old but I don't care about a lot of the things I used to care about... like staying online no matter where I happen to be, or, having a spotless car, or an immaculately manicured lawn. Ok... so if you know me well, you know I've NEVER cared too much about one of those things!
Fred's Corollary of Matrimonial Happiness: The amount of time a man spends relentlessly working in his yard is inversely proportional to the satisfaction level of his marriage!
What about business, what does this have to do with business? I spent some time thinking about people I'd worked with in the past, and which ones had succeeded and which ones had not... and I tried to find something that was common to each group. I found this tidbit: people who cannot unplug, who cannot isolate, are more likely to fail over time than those able to turn off the phone, email, social media, other distractions, and focus. This also parallels not obsessing on what others think of you or your ideas. To some this sounds radical. To some it's scary to unplug. Focus and unplug. Focus on one thing and unplug as much as possible. No one starts off at the top. Too many of us try to juggle multiple major goals as if we are at the top and have the resources, staff, procedures, and experiences in place to do so. Success builds success and therefore it's easier to add more and more successes as your successes compound. You get better at saying no, asking for help, surrounding yourself with the right people to help you succeed, etc. You get better at making decisions and identifying successful possibilities. Saying No... is Hard... Until you try it a few times. Keep your goals in mind and say no to additional projects, requests, and ideas that do not lead to your goals. You can't say no to everything, but successful people say no to a lot of things. Probably the more successful you are the more you say no. The unsuccessful tend to say yes to everything and are constantly overwhelmed and spread too thin (and constantly somewhat miserable).
Fred's Law of Success: Your potential to succeed in any given endeavor is directly related to singularity of focus and congruency of thought.
Conflicting Thought Patterns (CTPs) Most people have CTPs: Conflicting Thought Patterns (I think I just coined a new term!). The most common CTPs are about money, success, and relationships. For example a conflicting thought pattern: wanting more money while at the same time feeling contempt for those who have more money. A conflicting thought pattern for success: thinking you can't block out or unplug from the world UNTIL you're successful... i.e. once you're successful you'll have the ability to say "hold my calls" and "don't bother me" I'm working on something. Well color me stupid, but why not take that attitude now? There are a lot of "gurus" out there teaching and coaching and counseling on this very problem of CTPs. It is known by a lot of names. CTPs are hidden little curses that can wreck your life. Some are innocently planted in you when you're very young, even as an infant. Some you germinate yourself as you bounce your way through life. Most of the time you're not aware of them, only their effects show. Even becoming aware of one does not make it go away. Sometimes you can change quickly, however, it can take years to change some thought patterns. Start this New Year off looking under the hood for what makes you tick. Maybe you'll discover some small things about yourself you can change that will have a huge impact on your life! Until next time, Fred P.S. My yard's a mess!

Fred Black Business

CASE STUDY: Links from unique vs. duplicate content.

January 4th, 2012
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(UPDATE) As I suspected might happen, some malicious individuals have reported the ranking blog, and the blog home page is no longer indexed (weightlosstricksandtips.net/blog/). C'est la Google! Hopefully you saw the proof before it disappeared. I don't usually give out the domain names in my case studies for this very reason, but in this case [...]

Jonathan Leger Business

SOPA (Stop Online Piracy Act) & Protect IP Pending Bills

January 1st, 2012
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SOPA (Stop Online Piracy Act) & Protect IP Pending Bills

SOPA (Stop Online Piracy Act) & Protect IP Pending Bills

Fear Makes People do Terrible Things... What does a child or an emotionally immature person do when faced with the loss of something? They act out of fear. The entertainment industry has been acting like a spoiled child for years, trying to stop the inevitable wave of change that technology has birthed. In the golden age of the recording and film industries they had it all: money, power, and prestige. Wanting to maintain their status quo, they've let fear instead of innovation drive their actions. Instead of embracing change (you can't really stop it) these industries have slowly driven nail after nail into their own coffins. Now, they've used their power and influence to back two bills that have the potential to radically change the internet forever. These bills, if passed, will drive more death nails, but not just into the coffins of the supporting industries, but rather into the entire online community and economy. These are bad bills and must be stopped. But Shouldn't we Stop Piracy? Yes. Piracy has always been with us. Before the internet people made illegal copies of albums by recording them to cassette tapes. Whatever technology existed people took advantage of it. However, with each step up the technology ladder, as piracy became easier, so did the distribution channels and connectivity between these industries and consumers. Imagine where we'd be if these industries had embraced these channels instead of acting out of fear? I agree that piracy is bad and people who create web sites that distribute illegal copies of copyrighted material should be stopped. But not the way these bills propose to stop them. These bills require hosting companies to become police and give our government, and some private companies, the ability to take over the DNS system and easily shut down web sites. Follow the Money... Want to know what the real purpose is behind most legislation? Follow the money. Always follow the money. If you look at the companies and organizations supporting SOPA and Protect IP bills you'll see big companies, unions, and organizations. These bills will make it harder and more expensive for individuals and small businesses to do business on the internet. All aspects of having an online presence will cost much, much more. The Inverse Is Sometimes Better... The problem that lawmakers have is that they think figures for commerce and revenue are static. For example, if reports show $1,000,000 online sales last month, lawmakers think that they can add fees and taxes and create x dollars of revenue for the government. They fail to understand that if they burden the system with fees and taxes that people will purchase less, so instead of $1,000,000, perhaps the figure will drop to $800,000. So their planned government revenue will be lower than expected... then they'll want to increase taxes even more. And revenue will go down even more. The key is to reduce taxes and fees, even though it's counter intuitive to most elected officials thinking, and revenue will go up. The same goes for regulations. Some laws and regulations are necessary. But each additional law and regulation causes more and more of a burden on businesses, primarily small businesses, until they can't survive. Only the large corporations and monopolies - who pushed the laws and regulations through - have the resources to comply. Relevant Articles about SOPA and Protect IP: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/alexander-howard/sopa-information-2012_b_1166214.html. http://youtu.be/ypbJzfGQ3CE. http://gizmodo.com/5868545/the-stop-online-piracy-act-and-you-a-primer?tag=sopa. http://blogs.reuters.com/great-debate/2011/12/28/stopping-the-stop-online-piracy-act/. http://gizmodo.com/5870241. Contact Your Elected Officials. Did a boycott of GoDaddy changed their position on SOPA?. And this from my friend Ryan Healy: Why SOPA and PIPA Must Be Stopped. Nuclear Option... Some of the biggest web sites on the internet are considering a "nuclear option" to make more people aware of these bills: SOPA and Protect IP Nuclear Option!. What can You Do? Contact your elected officials and tell them you do not support these bills. I have and will continue to do so. It's our responsibility as citizens to tell our elected officials what we want and don't want put into law. If they don't listen then we elect someone else. Contact Your Elected Officials Protect Our Freedom... As pointed out to me by a respected internet marketer I'd asked to contribute to this article, there are much larger threats to our freedom such as the National Defense Bill that allows the military to arrest people in the USA and hold them without a trial... pretty scary stuff. Unfortunately that one has already passed. What can you do about it? The answer is the same; constantly let your elected officials know you don't want laws like this. It's our responsibility to be involved with our government - don't let freedom slip away. Until Next Time, Fred

Fred Black Business

The Importance Of Taking Time To Relax

December 29th, 2011
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We’ve all bought into the dream.

You know the one. With the attractive pictures. Of you (or me) sipping a pina colada, resting on the beach, while cash pours into our bank accounts because we run an auto-pilot home business on the Internet.

We’ve all realized it isn’t as rosy a dream to live through.

Reality bites. Early. Web entrepreneurs… Read the rest of this entry »

Yaro Starak Business

Use This Dot-Point Easy System To Write Your Killer 2012 Business Plan

December 28th, 2011
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It’s that time again when the old year winds down (toodles, 2011), a new year sparkles before us full of potential, promise, and possibility (hey there, 2012), and savvy entrepreneurs are preparing their 2012 business plans.

If you’ve never prepared a business plan, then this is the year I challenge you to start, no matter what stage your business is… Read the rest of this entry »

Yaro Starak Business